Mother
love shapes cultures and individuals. While most mothers know that
their love and emotional availability are vital to their children's
well-being, many of us do not understand the profound and long-lasting
impact we have in developing our young children's brains, teaching them
first lessons of love, shaping their consciences … At a time when
society urges women to seek their worth and personal fulfillment in
things that take them away from their families and intimate bonds,
Hunter invites women to come home — to their children, their best
selves, their hearts.
You and I need to be willing to look
inside our own experiences to identify any places we may still be
affected by our relationship with our own mother. We can begin that
journey by simply being willing to search our heart and better
understand ourselves. Professional counseling may also be a valuable
part of that process. Laura Ingalls Wilder said, "What is there in the
attitude of your children toward yourself that you wish were different?
Search your own heart and learn if your ways toward your own mother
could be improved." This is important whether your mother is still
living or not. You and I are deeply affected by our relationship with
our mother and one of the most powerful gifts we can give to our
children is our own emotional health. A first step you can take on this
journey is reading The Mom I Want to Be by T. Suzanne Eller. This book
is designed to help you rise above your past and give your kids a great
future.
A child should never feel as if they need to earn a
mother's love. This will leave a void in their heart all of their life. A
mother's love needs to be given unconditionally to establish trust and a
firm foundation of emotional intimacy in a child's life. If love is
withheld, a child will look for it in a million other ways, sometimes
throughout their lifetime unless they come to some sort of peace with
their past. The emotional foundation we give our children at home is
foundational to their life. We cannot underestimate the value of home
and the power of mother love.
It's All About Influence
The
profession of motherhood is all about influence. You and I have an
incredible opportunity to influence the next generation by what we do as
a mother every day. This is why intentionality is so important during
the years that we raise our family. Be intentional about your own
healing from life's hurts. Be intentional about taking care of yourself.
Be intentional about investing in your marriage. Be intentional about
parenting. Be intentional about homemaking. Intentionality increases
influence, and influence is something God asks us to be intentional
about. We cannot underestimate the power of mother love, the value of
home and the significance of our intentional presence in the home
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